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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH isn't as bad as yours, but he hasn't respected me for a long time (if ever, I remember he was pretty s****y to me early on). The only things that got him to respect me again were getting "hot" again and working again. When I was a SAHM, he just saw me as a moocher, no matter how much work I actually did. But once he saw I could take care of myself and replace him if needed, he got his act together.

Figure out if divorce is a good financial option for you. You may not get much alimony and may have to work again. Is that something you want to do?[/quote]

Why would you want to be married to someone like this?  Doormat.[/quote]

because she doesn't work! she has no money of her own.[/quote]

You missed the point. Why would a person want to marry someone who's only going to be respectful toward you if you're 1) hot; and 2) making money?  What happens if you get sick or have a kid and need to stay home for some reason like the kid is SN or god forbid, lost your attractiveness permanently under circumstances outside your control?  Plus, apparently he was shitty to her early on.  Door mat![/quote]

DP. It's not like these points were advertised from the beginning.[/quote]

So?  Why continue to be married to him?  It's like you all are determined to defend staying with an asshole who is only nice/respectful to you if you are 1)"hot; and 2) making money.  WTF, ladies?  [/quote]

again: she continues to be married to him because she has no income. [/quote]

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