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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure what the big deal is.  I dated someone with a similar gap, had some fun, and moved on.  She should just use the same common sense involved in dating a 20-year-old - don't live together after two weeks, don't buy him expensive things, don't get pregnant.[/quote]

They are charming and your relationship with them becomes all consuming after a point - life with them is so exciting, fun, wild.

I was dating A LOT when I met him and having a ball.  I loved going out with my friends.  I didn't want to get tied down to just one guy. Then I met him at a college party and he walked me back to my dorm room.  I didn't even give him my number but he found it listed on the master dorm list - which was taped to the wall.  We wound up going out.  I tried to break it off but he kept finding ways to talk to me....he begged me to talk to him, his heart was breaking and he couldn't think about anything, anyone else....it started off as an obsession on his part and I had never dealt with anything like that before.  Not to that degree anyway. It was unnerving, sad and flattering all at the same time.  Maybe if he got to know me a little better he would see that I was just a person....?  It went from agreeing to talk to him, to agreeing to have dinner with him to agreeing to go out to a nightclub...and the next thing you know we were together and I was calling him and going over to his place.

FWIW, I dated other older guys when I was in school.  They were good guys, we had fun and then we moved on.  This was different.

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