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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was 17 years old and in my first year at university, my first boyfriend was 26.  We lived together for 3 years and are still friends some 30 years later.  I understand the age difference can sound shocking but don't jump to any conclusions about the guy, his motivations, how he treats your daughter, etc.   [/quote]

Shocking? I, for one, is not shocked. If your boyfriend had been 46 or even 36, well, that would be a cause for concern, but [b]people mature so much later these days and, emotionally and culturally, there's not that much difference between a 17-  and a 26-year-old.[/quote][/b]

Good grief.  Really?  You think that a grad student in college is similar in maturity/experience to a HS kid?[/quote]

Shockingly, yes. Even science says so. Let alone that fact that 26-year-olds desperately need mommy's health insurance LOL[/quote]

There is no shame in being a full time student working towards a degree and being on your parents' health insurance.  That is a logistical necessity, not a sign of immaturity.

And it is totally beside the point in the Op's boyfriend's situation.  Op's daughter is 19, her boyfriend is 9 years older - 19 + 9 = 28.  So he isn't likely on his parents' health insurance.[/quote]

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