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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At no point did OP say he was addicted to porn. I think people are reading into this. I think his issues are mostly with her cheating. It’s incrsdible that he forgave her. She must have hurt him pretty bad. 
I would also break up with her, OP.you have the upper hand here. Tell her you’re done. And move on. [/quote]

good point, PP. an addiction would mean he deserves understanding for his "disease." Instead he's just a scuz of a dude who gets off watching women he doesn't know degrade themselves. Oh, and this activity is something that he had already sworn off at his wife's request. So he's just a liar with an unhealthy habit. That's easier to leave than someone with a "disease"[/quote]

I also think the porn addiction label gets thrown around way too much. He likes porn. He watches porn. This doesn't mean he's addicted to porn.  Same with sex addiction. Just because your SO has had an affair or three doesn't mean that he's a sex addict. It means he's cheating on you. If you want to forgive and stay with him, that's OK. I suppose the "sex addict" label makes it easier for you to live with that decision, but it isn't usually isn't a real diagnosis. Especially since it is an armchair diagnosis.[/quote]

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