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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a man and will chime in that these posters who are just yelling "sex" are full of it.

We are in the middle of a health crisis that my wife is facing. We have two young kids. I have a demanding job. Because of the health crisis, my wife can't work and the medical bills are creating financial stress. I'm exhausted, overwhelmed, disappointed (in modern medicine mainly), resentful (yes, I know it's not logical to resent a sick person and that makes me feel guilty), and probably a touch depressed (if I had 30 minutes at some point during the week, I'd probably try therapy but every minute of the day is spent ping ponging between daycare, work, doctors, and home). I am constantly running from the minute I open my eyes until my kids go to bed (when I get to work for another 2-3 hours).

Now, among the massive list of things that could make me happier and more connected, I would say that sex is the last thing I want.

Honestly, OP. Trauma is tough stuff. I am in the midst of it and don't know what to make of it. People want to think who they are and what they need, but life is interesting and can surprise you.[/quote]

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