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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman. I was discussing with my gay male friend whether I should sleep with this guy I am dating. I'm not comfortable with casual sex, so I only want to sleep with guys who are definitely into me.

Anyway, my friend was saying, this is not an issue with gay men. Men just sleep together with each other pretty  much right away. So then he asked, "So then why dont straight men just lie, and act like they really like the girl, so that she will sleep with them?"

I said, "I think some men DO do that. Which is why women try to analyze men's actions. [b]But I think some men realize that if the sleep with a woman, there is the potential with drama. And sleeping with a woman who you are not that into and you know you will eventually dump may not be worth the drama."[/b]

Any straight men want to weigh in on this?[/quote]

Another man here. This is dead on, in my opinion.

There is no such thing as "no strings attached" sex with most women. [/quote]

Basically he's probably a somewhat nice guy who probably wouldn't mind sleeping with you, but he's not smitten and is worried that you'd get attached to him. Then he'd have to be the bad guy at some point and dump you anyway.[/quote]

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