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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, being a person who is bad at having orgasms will eventually kill your libido. Your spouse's attentiveness may or may not contribute to this. [/quote]

I rocked at having orgasms until him. Alone or partnered. With him, even a vibrator didn’t help. No rhythm and no stamina.[/quote]

So what did you do to teach him? Did you make efforts to guide him and show him how to get you off? Or did you just complain about it and quit having sex?  If the latter, I have little sympathy for you. Good lovers are not born, but made. [/quote]

They have to want to be made. You cannot teach someone who's lazy or thinks secretly you ought to come from whatever feels good to him. [/quote]

Why did this relationship ever get past the 3rd date? You are now to blame, because you knowingly married a man who is (take your pick) lazy/bad in bed/no rhythm/no stamina. The failed marriage is now your fault. After the divorce, please learn your lesson and do not stay involved with somebody who is "bad in bed". This is just as dumb as me dating a fat girl, marrying her, then complaining that she isn't attractive. Well DUH, whose fault is that?[/quote]

My marriage isn't failed and I have no intent to divorce. People marry for different reasons. There is very little point in pretending that your husband is good in everything - you wouldn't lie that he has great hair if he's bald, would you? [/quote]

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