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I am 19:51 with the husband with untreated ADHD and possible other disorders.

My husband has an MD and PhD and can find a job because of his extremely high IQ, his degrees and wealth of experience, just not keep a job. On the surface, everything looks FINE. And in our house, it's a disaster. No one except my best friend knows how hard it is.

My husband DID NOT present like this before marriage!!!
Otherwise I would never have married him - duh. 
The reason he can't cope now is because he has a ton more responsibilities he didn't have when I met him. Senior position at work, two kids, one with issues, house maintenance, health problems in the family, and the rest of normal Life, and that's how people with previously invisible weaknesses crash and burn once they are loaded up with a full plate, while the rest of us manage more or less well.

This thread has had an influx of ignorant and highly critical people coming in. You are SO LUCKY to be ignorant like this! Try to be understanding as well.

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