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[quote=Anonymous]It all comes down to whether he is flexible on this and OP needs to figure that out. It can be "important" to him but he may ultimately be willing to compromise. It's not a deal breaker until OP has a definite answer on that. OP, the next time it comes up, I would explain to him why that's not something YOU would want to do. Make it about you personally, and why having a career is important and how you see that playing into having a family, and how you would want your future spouse to be supportive of that just as you would support him. Don't make it about how "this is 2017" and it's old-fashioned to think like that. You need to figure out if there's any wiggle room with him on this before you have a knee-jerk reaction and start questioning your entire relationship. [/quote]
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