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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't usually get involved in these 'mama wars' threads, because I see both sides. It's obvious to me that kids do much better with a good (!) SAHP, but it's also obvious to me that not everyone can or wants to be that. And that's okay.

In this case, while I technically agree that it's more likely that the kids would do well with a SAHP, I think that the guy needs therapy. He has trauma and issues from his childhood that need to be resolved before even thinking about starting a family. You may come to the same realization, but it shouldn't come from a feeling of expectation and DESPERATION because he wants to avoid his past and his parents' mistakes. It should come from a reasonable thought process that involves thinking about the specific parties, their strenghts and weaknesses, desires, goals, etc.

[b]I'd say it's a dealbreaker because it doesn't sound like he loves you and wants a family with YOU. It sounds like he has an idea in his head and is trying to find someone to fit into it. That would be a dealbreaker for me personally.[/b][/quote]

good point[/quote]

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