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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All my friends took about 2 years to get over the divorce. [b]If you W is unhappy about the marriage it is because your new wife is mean to your children behind your back or you are just too stupid to see it[/b]. [/quote] I am not saying this is never the reason for an ex wife to be unhappy, but this is definitely not the norm!!![/quote] Actually, men moving on and leaving their children behind is the norm. [/quote] Actually the norm we know is men want their kids, would like shared or full custody but only at best get every other weekend and a few weeks in the summer or a few holidays and a few weeks in the summer (even if mom took the kids and moved away) and often mom refuses the kids and tells them terrible untrue things about their fathers. If you want men involved you need to encourage it and set up a system to enforce men's rights to their children.[/quote] [b]My sister is a family law judge[/b]. Men don't want their kids. They might agree to more time to pay less but her experience is 10% want their kids full time another 10% want 50/50. The rest just treat their kids as collateral damage.[/quote] She is? What county and state does she work for? I'll look her up. I wanted my kids. All my divorced male friends wanted our kids. In my circle of divorced male friends we spent between $50,000 and $300,000 in legal fees to attempt to gain shared or full custody. As a group we were successful about 40 percent of the time. Are you telling me that a man who spends a quarter of a million dollars to be a part of his children's lives doesn't want their kids? [/quote]
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