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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you get upset when your ex remarried?

I've been divorced 7 years. She filed for the divorce. I Met someone a couple years ago and recently got remarried. My ex went bonkers. She has been saying really bad things about me to the kids and [b]preventing me from spending time with them[/b]. She filed a law suit and served me papers days prior to the wedding wanting more child support and alleging all sort of things. The situation has gotten bad with the kids. They are not handling the stress very well.

1. If you asked for the divorce and then got it why get so upset when your partner moved on?
2. What did it take for you to move on yourself?
3. Have any of you done this to your ex husband and got taken to task in court?[/quote]

She is denying you court ordered visitation with them??[/quote]

Women do it all the time, and suffer no consequences.  Happened to a friend of mine.  Finally he got tired of the fight and wrote the children off.  His parents then disinherited their grandchildren, which one day will cost them about $3 million.  My friend just remarried, and is adopting his new wife's teenage children.  I expect one day they will be the beneficiaries of the family estate.  [/quote]

You are one sick psycho.

Before you call me a divorced bitter wife, I'm not. People that abandon their children to prove their wives are wrong are sick human beings.[/quote]

The above poster didn't abandon the kids to prove the ex wife wrong. It was done because at some point there isn't much else a parent who has been systematically alienated from his children can do. Look up Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS). Fathers are often the victim of this. They are often not supported by society or the courts. It is absolute torture when this happens and sometimes the only option left is to move on.

I'm a divorced father and about a year ago I had a epiphany while cleaning my kids rooms. I realized that I had put my life on hold for years. I bought a house and decorated my kids rooms and was spending my non-possession times waiting for my kids. All the while their mother would jerk me around with pick-up and drop-off. The kids wouldn't answer the phone when I called. I haven't moved on yet but I've been locked in court fights just to see my kids for a long time now. I'm spending money that I don't have just so I can visit them. Their mother forced the kids to choose. The School has reported her to CPS but the courts don't care. At some point I may have to move on also. A lot of people around me have started to suggest I move on. [/quote]

Men settle for every other weekend and say stupid shit like "put my life on hold" when they describe taking care of kids over &lt;fill in other activity&gt; then wonder why they have no relationship with their kids.

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