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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like others said, definitely seize this opportunity to [b]take control of your own life and improve on yourself rather than focusing on others.[/b] Your friend have material success. Sure, they may have other forms of success, but that doesn't mean you can't find a different sort.

Set some short term, long term, and even longer term goals. They can be for your career, for traveling, for getting involved in something, anything.

Enjoy your husband. I'm not saying that you don't already! But take this jealously and channel it into passion for one another. Do new things together. Dream big. Take a step back and enjoy each other more than you already do.

Focus on your character. What aspects of yourself would you like to improve? Do you feel that [b]you're too high-strung[/b]? Focus on relaxation, de-stressing, perhaps taking up meditation, gardening, painting, whatever floats your boat. Would you like to be more charitable? Look to get involved in a project outside of work that you know you can become passionate about. Look to make a difference, small or large. What to be more confident? Think of how you can achieve that. Is it through exercising or improving your beauty/self-care skills? Is it through challenging yourself to talk to a stranger every day, or to remind yourself to always set up straight?

What are you eating? I know that sounds weird. But food fuels you and what you put into your body matters. Each what makes you feel good, and energetic, and strong. Try new recipes, discover different world cuisines, etc.

It's the little things, OP. It's about feeling fulfilled. [b]Perhaps the fact that you're focused on your friends' material successes is a sign that there's things in your life that need to change, but not the ones you think. If you end every day feeling fulfilled, you will be alright.[/b][/quote]

This is really great and practical advice, OP.  I know it is hard for people with your type of personality not to compare yourself to other women, but you have to get off of it, in order to move ahead, for yourself. [/quote]

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