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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I went to a party recently and was chatting with these really tall, attractive guy who seemed to like me very much too- kind of hung around me, all my friends pointed out how he was checking me out, etc.

Eventually I went upstairs to grab a drink and hung out up there talking to people, and he left in the meantime after saying goodbye.

Now, I am a friendly drunk (as in talkative and nice), and gave my phone number to two of the guys at the party, neither of whom I would ever be interested in romantically.

Both of them have started texting me almost daily and they've asked me out.

My concerns are twofold: My friend is dating their friend, I dont want to make things awkward by just ghosting them.  2) I dont want to be like "I have a boyfriend" because I want to run into this guy again and hopefully get to interact with him more.

Is there any way to politely reject the two guys I dont want without causing weird feelings and still get access to the tall guy?  I'm pretty attractive and was honestly considering asking my friend to give me the guy's number or something- but I've never done that before. [/quote]

Don't respond to texts if you don't want to go out with them.  It's understood that if someone doesn't respond, they are not interested. Please know that no man has been shattered by rejection of a woman he only met once the night before at a party.  You overestimate how important your response is to them.  It's just not a big deal.

The tall guy, it's OK to reach out to him once but no more.  If he is interested, he'll respond, if not, take a hint.

And please don't be so spastic about this, it's not a big deal, none of it is. There are thousands of men out there.[/quote]

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