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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In hindsight was it good that you were emotionally involved with the GC? Or would it have been easier if it had just been a simple business transaction with no relationship? Do you feel that the compensation made a difference in the quality of life for the GC's family? How many embryo transfers did it take before she got pregnant?[/quote]

It was pretty easy on me emotionally. I think it was easier for her knowing me and DH well.  I wish that I had spent more time with her during her pregnancy, but overall it was very smooth.

Yes, I absolutely feel that the compensation made a difference in their quality of life. There was no question that although her heart wanted to help another couple, she really needed/wanted the money. It's very easy - especially on DCUM - to get wrapped up in our generally extravagant lifestyles. Other than my GC, none of my close friends earn an hourly wage. I don't know exactly how much she earns, but I think it was about $15/hr. Her kids' activities - dance, summer camp, karate, soccer -  were about $5k/year. That's about 2+ months wages for her. Plus, she gets a paid (well deserved) maternity leave. I totally understand her desire to give her kids these opportunities.

We were lucky that we had success with one PGS tested embryo. She did, however, do a mock transfer as one would do with a FET.[/quote]

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