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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I don't think the real evil in infidelity is the sex act itself; it's the dishonesty, the emotional betrayal, and the violation of your trust in one another. Yeah, knowing your partner had sex with someone else is really bad, but that's not the worst part IMHO. [/quote]

Agree with this - it's the continuous lying, gas lighting and sneaking around that took the biggest toll on me.  My XDH ended up leaving for his AP so I didn't have a choice to make in the matter but I struggled with staying for over a year all the while he was carrying on with his EA (probably physical too), picking fights with me, and I just knew something was still going on.  It's an awful way to live to look someone in the eye every day and feel like they are probably lying to your face.  Now looking back I'm so glad to not be with someone who is capable of that level of dishonesty towards someone who they vowed to spend their life with/have a child with.

I think if someone owns up to their actions fully and honestly puts in the effort to make things right that's one thing.  The deceit is what really erodes trust and is very hard to come back from.     [/quote]

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