Reply to Mf gf hit me for the first time (DV in lesbian relationship)

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Mf gf hit me for the first time (DV in lesbian relationship)"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that you started it and I’d probably slap you too. Frankly, you should’ve just taken the slap and let it go but apparently you fought back physically too.

No domestic violence is ever the answer, but I do feel differently because it’s two women. I’ve been in a fist fight with a woman who outweighed me by a good 60 pounds. It meant nothing, it was a fair fight and I won. (Not a domestic, just a regular old cat fight.)

It is not fair to make unfounded accusations, then think you can flip out and destroy very expensive property with no repercussions. You wanted to control her. Your means of that was to interrogate her, and when you didn’t like the answer, make it impossible for her to use her phone. That’s worse than a smack to me. [/quote]

I know I should've walked away after the slap but I was already heated and then when she hit me, it just made it worse. I regret the whole thing. I know I started it which was immature of me but I can't believe she took it as far as she did. I damaged her phone and I would've paid for it once I calmed down and realized what I'd done. She didn't have to beat me up over a material object. I guess that's what is really making me question her and our relationship. ~ OP[/quote]

It wasn’t over a material object - it was over your behavior - jealous, controlling, entitled, violent. You need to get a handle on this before you enter another relationship (because this one is over - you can’t come back from a physical fight).[/quote]
He hit you because of your behavior.  You’re jealous, controlling, entitled and violent.  You had it coming to you...[/quote]

PP here and that’s not what I said. The relationship is over because physical abuse is a deal breaker. But OP is emotionally abusive, and she needs to get to the root of that before she gets in a new relationship. I did not say that she “had it coming”.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics