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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH used to be like this. He and his parents would make elaborate plans and only tell me at the last minute. Or they would tell me the roughest contours such that I still had no idea what was going on.  I have zero f.u.cks to give though, so I would just bail on plans with his family. If you don't care enough to give me information in a timely fashion, then I don't care enough to come.

His mom tried to make me the point person for plans with DH's side of the family and I just wouldn't respond to those texts and calls. Not adding to my to-do list! Months would go by without us seeing the in laws until DH decided he missed them enough to make the plans with his family and communicate them to me in a timely fashion so that we could go see them.

Every now and then, both DH and his parents try to act up again. For last Thanksgiving, MIL decided she wanted to throw a party on Wednesday and she invited everyone else weeks in advance. DH didn't bother to tell me either. She then told me three days before and expected me to take the Wednesday off. Nope! She even tried to lean on me by claiming she planned the party to show off her grandkids. Oh, well. I politely declined to mess up my political capital at work by taking off Wednesday on such short notice. After that, she went back to respecting my time again.[/quote]

agree. [/quote]

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