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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Frankly, I'm sick of people on this forum saying "partner". A boyfriend relationship just doesn't have the same level of commitment as a HUSBAND so, yeah. Still if it were me, I'd break up with him for sure. [/quote]

Before we actually legally wed last year, my then-boyfriend was far more of a committed partner than my exH had been in 5 years of marriage. Even after we married, my first H was never my emergency contact person because he was bad a making decisions and was honest that he didn't want to be responsible. In contrast, my mere boyfriend took unpaid personal days off to help me when I was hospitalized with uncontrollable vomitting and abdominal cramps. So, yeah, he was and still is my partner, regardless of which side of the marriage license we're on.[/quote]

And then you got married, because people who show that level of commitment are the type to get married. It isn't about being committed before or after marriage, it's about being willing to get married. If he hadn't been willing to get married, he would not have been as committed as he was. Willingness to get married doesn't necessarily show you're committed to caring for the other person (as with your ex), but an unwillingness to get married is a yellow flag for a lack of commitment. [/quote]

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