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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Sure he can get another job. But it won’t pay even half of his salary now. And we have a mortgage that is based on his current salary. Ideally in a few years we can revisit that option. And to the pp that asked. No we have no family here at all. All are 4 hours or more away. And to the pp that said to stop whining and “I knew what I was signing up for”. You know things always seem more manageable before kids. He actually worked even more than and it was totally fine. So yeah. The hypothetical and reality are two different things. We have been together since we were 19. Sure I knew what I was signing up for-but should I have not married the man I love because he has a demanding job? Come on. But yeah. I’m just going to hire someone and he will have to be ok with it.[/quote] Downsize your lives. Then he gets a new job. It sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too.[/quote] +1 If you want to live large you have to pay the price and suck it up. No sympathy.[/quote]
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