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Reply to "I am sad today...need to vent. Tired of doing everything."
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[quote=Anonymous]^^ Just wanted to add a more personal note, having seen some of the comments just before mine, that I hate when people make it about the job versus the lifestyle. My dad had a similar job and high income, and it took me years to realize that he didn't NEED to be working insane hours (and missing family vacations, and dinner every night) in order to be making the money he made. He was doing it to avoid us. He was doing it because work became, at a certain point, easier than his family. He was a workaholic. He loved work more than he loved his kids, or my mom. People really miss the point when they simply tell people in your position that DH should get a different job. Maybe. Maybe he should. But that's not necessarily the main thing that is going on here. (And as I'm not saying he's avoiding you, I'm saying it's more complicated than "the job" that holds him against his will and if only he had a new "job" he'd be happy). [/quote]
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