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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do the following, exactly: Do. Not. Deviate. Or. Improvise. Get him really mad at you about something, then call the police. Tell them you're in fear for your life, from your husband. DO NOT STATE A SPECIFIC THREAT, unless he makes one. Simply being in fear for your life is enough. They will remove him from the home pursuant to a TRO being granted. If he resists in any way (pray he does!) they will arrest him. If he resists arrest (pray he does, again!) they may use force. Once he's out of the home, he can't come back. If he does, he's in violation, and gets arrested. Also, be sure to notify his employer that he is under a restraining order. You might get lucky and they may take action against him at work, too. You never know, it's worth a try. Begin your 1-year separation period. Do not contact him at all. If he contacts you, call the police immediately and tell them "you feel threatened and fear for your safety". Exactly those words, no variation. Good luck. Now get that SOB mad so you can start the process [/quote] Note, if this goes wrong and they at all find no reason for the call this will seriously come back to F#@% you over in the actual divorce. Don't take stupid advice like this. Act like an adult, consult a lawyer, follow lawyers advice. [/quote] This is why is critical to use VERY SPECIFIC LANGUAGE, as outlined above, to avoid any possible issues. If you use precisely this exact phrasing, without deviation, it will work. If you improvise or start getting into specifics, it will fail. Stick to the script and law enforcement MUST respond accordingly. [/quote]
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