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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally disagree with the idea that kids need to see you fight and disagree that the benefit from it.

It's BS made up by aults without any self control and who are totally self absorbed.

My parents believed in that crap and I got nothing from it but feeling tensed and stressed. Feelings I can't shake even today and I believe has led me to be conflict adverse.[/quote]

OP here. If your parents had terrible fights in front of you that was definitely inappropriate. But my own parents had disagreements in front of us and while of course I would have preferred that they always got along great, I think it was good for us to see them work through things in a mature way. [/quote]

If your are having the same fight over and over you are not modeling good behavior.  Stop justifying arguing in front of your kids.  Disagreeing and working through an issue is legitimate, arguing is not.  Sounds like you both need therapy to find some way too communicate more effectively.[/quote]

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