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Reply to "DH walked away from lunch date with me and the kids--am I overreacting?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally disagree with the idea that kids need to see you fight and disagree that the benefit from it. It's BS made up by aults without any self control and who are totally self absorbed. My parents believed in that crap and I got nothing from it but feeling tensed and stressed. Feelings I can't shake even today and I believe has led me to be conflict adverse.[/quote] This, exactly the same for me. My parents' fighting in front of me as a child makes me have panic attacks when there is conflict in my life now. Just stop it.[/quote] Why repeat and not break the cycle OP? OP said her parents fought in front of her and says it's a good thing. Yet, here you are walking to lunch with the kids fighting the same old recurring fight. It's not a good thing. It's not the time. The kids don't want or need to hear it. Even your DH was calling it when he walked off. Maybe because nothing else could get your attention. [/quote]
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