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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here again. This was my thread. It eventually went off the exact topic but the beginning sounds a lot like what you've written. http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/617995.page

Despite some of the ridiculous comments, this site did help me quite a bit.[/quote]

OP here. Believe it or not I read that thread yesterday morning before I posted this one...it does sound like we have/had similar experiences. Mind if I ask, since February, have things returned to a healthy level with your coworker, and did you tell your husband about any of it? No judgment from me either way, will understand if you'd rather not re-dredge.
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Yes, everything is purely professional with the coworker now. I am lucky to only have to see him once every 3-4 months. I've seen him twice since February and didn't have the same reaction at all. Last time we saw each other he told me he and his wife were expecting a baby in November. I'm happy for him and I'm even happier to have regained my sanity. I didn't mention anything to my husband because the purpose would have been to allay my guilt, which wouldn't have been fair to him; it also would have been useless to put doubts in his head; finally, if the situation were reversed, I wouldn't want to know (unless of course he WAS going to cheat, but that's a totally different scenario than this).  The re-dredging is not having any effect, btw.

It really is a drug and you are going through withdrawal. Time and distance (i.e. no/minimal contact) are the answer.[/quote]

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