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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Child custody isn't about what's fair for the adults.  It's about what's fair for the kids, or at least it should be.   Treating your kids like a reward or punishment for "behavior" isn't fair to them.[/quote]

New poster from an intact family.

It is not fair or what is best for the kids to have their dad break up the family with affairs then to rip custody away from mom to avoid paying child suppprt.[/quote]

True.  But as far as I can tell, him not having an affair isn't an option.  That ship has sailed.  So, the question needs to be "What's best for the kids of the options that actually exist".  Maybe that's going with mom.  Maybe it's joint custody.  I can't say.  But the judge needs to be looking at that question, and not the question of "who deserves the kids?"  Because kids aren't prizes.[/quote]

I'm with OP.  sure think about kids interest but why doubly punish the 'victim' 
Honestly -  I don't know why anyone gets married and I feel for everyone that's been dragged thru the divorce industrial complex by their spouse. [/quote]

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