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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think cheaters usually get their just desserts. The courts need to stay out of that stuff, divide the assets, and put the kids needs first. However, if one spouse is having every Tom, Jane or whatever around your kids or there drugs the court will get involved. Look at it this way, you are rid of a total scum bag and have your entire life to do what you want. I wouldn't get involved with anyone and find out why you chose this type of person, and why you missed all the red flags. You don't want to repeat that mistake again.[b] Give it a good year, and play hardball with him in court. After that I would stop all communication with him, and text only for agreed upon pick-ups and drop-offs. I also wouldn't let him inside your home, and completely cut him off.[/b] In these cases it's best to forge ahead and find a better life. He will probably end up regretting he threw his family under the bus for trash. And who knows you may end up with a good partner down the road and will be thankful he ended your marriage.[/quote] Because OP doing all of these things will in no way make the divorce even more difficult for her kids, right? :shock: [/quote]
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