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[quote=Anonymous]My mom was you OP. SAHM to 4 kids. She absolutely loved being a mother and raising kids. It was what she saw as her strength and her calling and what she wanted to do.

She had a very difficult time when we left home and she had an empty nest. She initially tried to other other people who didn't have family support and while that may have been beneficial in some ways, it got her into some very unhealthy dynamics. Then my brother had kids and she tried to be too over involved as grandma as a way of still being the nurturing mom. That didn't go well. She drifted about a bit lost for a few years. We tried to get her involved in all kinds of things but all she wanted to do was be a mother. She tried foster parenting but that didn't go well either.

In the end, my sister had kids and she has health problems and they depend heavily on my parents for help. As much as it exhausts my other to be caring for preschoolers, she loves being needed to raise these kids.

All that to say...definitely prepare now. figure out what you need and find other ways to meet those needs. Develop other interests and other connections and who you are as a woman vs as a mom.[/quote]

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