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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I kicked him out because he went outside to be interviewed. I heard the police say to him: "The police in X state have been trying to get a hold of you to no avail." He asked me to close the window so I couldn't overhear. That made me suspicious.

His friend disclosed to him last week that he had been swabbed. He's known for a week that his co-workers were being swabbed. He neglected to tell me.

To me, that seems like guilty behavior. [/quote]
It sounds like a man who is scared to death and trying to protect his wife to me. [/quote]
Not trying to start an argument, but I'm genuinely curious what you mean by this.  If they're looking for a DNA match and he knows it wasn't him, what's to be scared of?  If I knew they were swabbing people because they had evidence I'd rush to the station to get my name off the list.[/quote]
His wife completely flipping out and kicking him out of his home? [/quote]
She's flipping out because he kept it from her!! I would flip out as well, if my DH kept something like this from me (for many reasons). But we have a relationship where I couldn't fathom his keeping something like this from me, so one reason for flipping out would be figuring out what's going on in our relationship that he would feel like he couldn't tell me something.

OP is concerned about her DH's behavior, and most likely she understands how to contextualize it way better than random internet strangers.[/quote]

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