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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of people here projecting their own issues onto the OP.

There are basically two things that could be happening here:

1) You are nagging about non-essentials to a husband who does a reasonable (if not totally equitable) amount of the household/kid stuff.  If that is the case, then the nagging comes from you and your own issues and you need to learn how to let go, possibly via therapy.

2) You are nagging because your husband is NOT shouldering a reasonable share of the workload.  If that is the case, then you need to accept that you will never ever fix him.  Only he can choose to change.  Do you want to be married to THIS VERSION of your husband?  If so, do everything yourself and/or outsource and accept that this is the marriage you choose.  If you do not want to be married to THIS VERSION of your husband (not the edited version who is really nice and cares about you and the kids even though he is fine with you doing everything and being exhausted), then you need to revisit divorce as an option.[/quote]

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