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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]i decided to see what would happen if I stopped inviting my sil and her family over for various holidays/dinners/BBQs.  We have not seen her in two years. My MIL is angry at us for "not reaching out".  Makes no sense, as long as I host everything is great :( Does not occur to them that perhaps they should reach out too?[/quote]

Do you want to be right, or do you want to see your sister-in-law and her family? (I'm guessing the former, actually. :) )[/quote]

your guess is wrong. It is hurtful when you constantly put in effort, money, time and it is never returned. I am guessing you are one of those people that never host and does not have any appreciation into how much time goes into these things.  :roll: [/quote]

OK, I apologize. You want to see your sister-in-law and her family. In that case, it seems clear to me that you have to invite them. They are not going to invite you. You can spend time stewing about what they ought to do but don't (and having your mother-in-law angry at you), or you can invite them. Those are the choices.[/quote]

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