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[quote=Anonymous]I think it depends a bit on your field of work.  If you choose Option 1, just make sure that, when you return, you are seeking advancements and promotions.

I know it's not always possible, but I think part-time is a great way if you can arrange for it.  I recall asking advice of the director of my son's preschool when he was 2 years old (13 years ago).  She was a very well-respected lady in the DC area  because she had lead this well-regarded preschool for 30 years, and had seen lots of families over the years.

When I told her I felt guilty working part-time, she advised that it's wise for women to keep one foot in the work force in some way.  I really took that to heart.

I stayed in the work-force part-time for 10 years (with 3 kids), in a lawyer position.  In hindsight, it seemed stressful even to work part-time.  I hated saying goodbye in the morning!

My gut told me to hang on to the part-time position, even though I really wanted to be with my kids.

It worked out for the best in my situation, as I was able to change companies and get a much better job.  My new job was full-time, but with great flexibility and income.  When considering whether to hire me, the new job didn't seem to mind that my 10 prior years were part-time instead of full-time.

I still really wish I'd had those early years dedicated to my kids.  I hope that my daughters can have that with their kids someday.  In my case, I just needed the financial peace of mind.

Good luck, OP!  You seem like such a good mom.  Whatever choice you make, just try to be at peace with it and not feel stressed about it.  Mom-guilt is not a productive feeling, as I have learned myself.[/quote]

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