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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son has been friends with this boy since kindergarten. The boy recently lost his dad, day of the funeral I saw my son kiss the other boy on the cheek and hold his hand. When he was over here yesterday they were holding hands again and when I left for work this morning they were in bed together and  he had his arm around him.

Both boys are  16 so it's not as though dating is unexpected. I'm also not homophobic I made a point not to be, as I was raised with that hate and didn't want that in my son's life, My question is why hasn't he told me?

He had a girlfriend  last summer and earlier this year and I knew about them.

Obviously, he hasn't said anything for a reason, so is there a way to mention this without making things awkward?[/quote]

The weirdest part of your post is that you allow lovers in your child's bed...not age appropriate.[/quote]

Up  until a  few weeks ago I never saw anything that would  lead me to believe they were anything beyond friends,  the kiss and hand holding alone at the funeral  didn't stand out that much given the context.

I'm fine with my son having a boyfriend or girlfriend  spend the night or have sex in our home, I don't think banning teens from sex is the right approach.[/quote]
I will let my kids know that I am homophobic and no way in hell they are having sex in our house. [/quote]

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