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[quote=Anonymous]Threads like this make me think of a blog post I once read about a woman who was really fit and had a good body, but had lost a significant amount of weight to get there and had to work hard to maintain it. She wrote about what it was like to date, because these guys loved how fit she was, but wanted to pretend that the reality of maintaining it didn't exist. They didn't want her getting up early on a Saturday to go to spin class and then have a low-calorie, high-protein breakfast at home, they wanted her to sleep in and then go out for french toast for brunch, never mind that she couldn't maintain the body if she went along with that lifestyle. It sounded miserable to me.

I guess what this gets at is, OP, be who you are and who you want to be. If you want to lose weight and get in shape for yourself, do it regardless of dating and let dating fit that lifestyle you want for yourself. If you're content where you are right now, don't make changes just for dating. Present your honest self, and then find people who like and respect that honest self. It's so much easier and enjoyable.[/quote]

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