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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are your in-laws Asian/South Asian? It is very common in those cultures to treat the son as an ATM. The daughters-in-law are not even consulted.[/quote] not true, do don't make blanket statements. We are just raised with a lot more compassion for aging parents that's all. They've given their dues raising us, it's only fair we help out in whatever way possible that's all. It's called being human. Asking them to work in jobs that are not easy at their age, just to get more money, isn't fair to them. Let them live out their old age with some assurance that they're cared for. Again, nothing wrong with paying back within your means. [/quote] Give it a rest. You shouldn't have kids if your plan is for them to pay you back for GASP clothing and sheltering them. Considering that OP is working two jobs I highly doubt it is in her budget to bail out these two the next time they want to buy a $12k bed. [/quote]
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