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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you all stop being so dramatic. No one is suggesting that they left TK alone all day or berated him for having a shitty mother. The fact of the matter is that op is valid in her feelings that the plan for the day was to get something pretty big accomplished. She has one child, so it's not unreasonable that she doesn't want to randomly have to watch out for an additional child while moving homes. [/quote]

She didn't. The kid came for grandma, not her. And he was supposed to be there that afternoon anyway! Ridiculous.[/quote]

And grandma was there to help the OP.  That was the deal.  Sounds like that is the problem.  OP is always accommodating her SIL. That's not TK's fault but OP is valid in being ticked. There is nothing to suggest OP doesn't care for or otherwise accommodate TK.  That doesn't mean she needs to sacrifice every bit of help or all of her time to be a substitute parent for TK.  It was one freaking day. ONE.  SIL should have been required to handle her own kid for a few more hours. [/quote]

No, OP is just jealous because she wants to use MIL for free labor and babysitting.  Mark my words.

OP, if your MIL feels over-burdened by SIL, that's between MIL and SIL.  It's MIL's business if she wants to have her older grandkid there while she helps you.  You don't own your MIL.  [/quote]

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