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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wonderful story OP, please keep us informed when you get back! Kind of a personal question... so your mom cheated on your dad then? Or was she already pregnant when they got together?[/quote] My mom and dad were already on rocky ground at that point. My birth dad had an appointment at their house through his work, he had a sweet southern accent. My mom felt alone and this sweet southern guy was giving her attention. It was the perfect storm. So yes, they both had an affair. I will definitely repost after the trip. I feel blessed. I have no issues about how I came to be. 2 people made a bad choice but something good came of it. :)[/quote] That is a lovely way to view it, always keep your glass is half full view of this (as you know you'll always have naysayers who disapprove). I hope I wasn't being too nosy when I asked about your mom cheating, this whole situation though is just so fascinating. Imagine if you'd never done that DNA test?? :)[/quote] Oh, no worries! If I was worried about it, I shouldn't have posted, you were just fine. It's facts from 50 years ago, who cares right? Was it right? Of course not but it happened I'm here. I cannot cast the first stone and of all people, I'm the one most affected and I've forgiven her so I hope she can forgive herself. [/quote] Ok, thanks. :) Even though this is an anonymous site, I still always try to be as respectful as I'd want others to be towards me. Like I said, your story is absolutely fascinating & I hope you've been documenting each detail of your journey? This would make for an award winning documentary, no doubt. Have you considered possibly writing a book after your father & their mother passes? You can always write it under a pen name, as well. It's truly remarkable how DNA tests can change a perception you've had your entire life within seconds. Have you seen this wonderful video? I cry every single gosh darn time I watch it without fail, lol. I've also watched each of the videos in their entirety of all of the folks within this one. https://youtu.be/tyaEQEmt5ls [/quote]
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