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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most white men don't want to date you. [/quote]

I think most people marry within their race but posts like this annoy me bc nobody cares.

I'm a south Asian woman who tried finding a South Asian guy for about 5 years.  Went on lots of semi blind dates, meeting people through friends and family etc and so on.  I started looking for a husband around 24, knew I wanted someone who shared the same background etc.  Crickets from the guys...I'd meet a guy for a few times and would never hear back.  Mind you most of these men were meeting several woman through similar match makers and I never made the cut (or they had partners that their parents didn't approve of and went on these meetings to placate their parents).  Either way it really sucked.  This does matter somewhat  but I had clear skin, 120lbs at 5'7  (working out and dieting constantly) and not excessively hairy or dark (skin color is a thing with us).  Good manners would let the guy take the lead and chaste (another thing with us).  Also had a masters and a good job.

This lasted a good while before I tired of the rejection.  Found my husband (who's Italian and Greek) in a few months. Maybe white guys don't want to date us but they're a helluva lot less picky!  [/quote]

I'm sorry the PP said that, and I'm sorry you had to go through what you did.  You sound really hot![/quote]

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