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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote][b]Guys your age who are single and never married either have issues, or do not ever want to get married.[/b] The issues can be anything, but my guess is they would probably eliminate them from the "quality" pool in your eyes. And unlike prior generations, where a guy would often pooh pooh marriage and then eventually march to the altar because 90% of all adults get married, men this age and younger see never marrying as a completely valid option. So I'm going to guess that eliminates "quality" for you as well. [/quote]

I don't think that's true.  I have two good very male friends from work who are quality guys - reasonable looking, but not gorgeous, decent jobs but not millionaires, graduate degrees, on the nerdier side but not socially inept - who did not get married until their early to mid 40s.  There wasn't anything seriously wrong with them, and they did want to get married.  If I had been single, I would have considered dating either of them if they'd asked me out.[/quote]

Meh, the market clears.  People who are high value in the dating world get taken first.  Lower value people clear when they match with people of the same value.  The market clears slowly when people are introducing roadblocks to the eventual clearing mechanism.  [/quote]

You assume "high value" individuals want something exclusive in their younger years. I know a lot of attractive guys in their early 30s who preferred to have fun in their 20s and just recently started looking for the one.[/quote]

yeah and they follow the derek jeter path - lock down a hottie who is in her mid twenties.

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