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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I might say one of the Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars type comments like how we like the temperatures completely different.  Or say, yeah he hates my car.  But if it is a real complaint that is bothering me I feel like it is a betrayal to discuss it with a friend and also the person I should be discussing it with is DH if I want it to get better.  If I need a sanity, am I reasonable check, I would post on DCUM.  I will admit that early in our marriageI can't remember what triggered it but DH mentioned that he would like me to come to him about things and not just my best friend from college.  He doesn't want to hear about the Bachelorette etc but if I am upset about work or my mom, he didn't want to be shut out of the conversation and I'm on the phone an hour with my best friend and he has no idea of what is going on.  So I think that got me in the mindset of discussing things with him that were upsetting to me in general.

Funny story though is I realized when I was doing something on his laptop that my text messages were showing up there for the past few months.  Sometimes after various IOS updates or something, other devices will default to including all the numbers linked to Apple ID.  I said "well thank goodness I wasn't talking bad about you to my friends!" So moral of the story is with all the linked devices and also in our case shared passwords, be careful what you text in general.[/quote]

Yeah, this is a bit too controlling from your husband. For him to not want you on the phone with a bff without him knowing what you're talking about and having all your texts popping up on his laptop? Hate to break it to you, but it's not an update. Hes controlling you[/quote]

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