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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jumping in here. When you say bad things about his family you are saying bad things about him. Yeah, that hurts. Don't do it. You don't have to like them. Or get along with them. Or even see them. But don't talk bad about them.

How would you feel if your  DH said bad things about your mom, who you love. You would feel crappy. And you are putting him in the impossible position of having to choose you over his mom. His mom! He is half of her.

Makes me nervous that you think it is OK to talk her down.[/quote]

This.  My sister can be very annoying.  Dh doesn't really like her.  I get that, but he doesn't have to say it to me.  I don't expect them to spend time together, but I don't want to hear from dh that he doesn't like her.  He can vent to his brother or his friends about it, not me.  [/quote]

+1000  It is pointless to talk about HIS MOTHER in a negative way to your DH.  Don't vent and complain to your DH about his mother who he loves.  You are asking him to choose sides and it is a no win situation for him.  Your therapist is telling you this so now you are complaining about the therapist choosing sides when the therapist is telling you how it is.

Vent about his mother to your family and friends.  Not your DH.[/quote]

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