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[quote=Anonymous]Definitely don't propose to your current GF if this is on your mind.

Even though I thoroughly agree with everyone who's said "You only want her because you didn't control the way you lost her, and you never had her all the way, so you idealize her" - I think this is clearly what's going on with you.

That said, you are so hung up on her, I also think you should just go ahead and call her.  Chances are you did her a favor when you didn't call her back a few years ago, and hopefully she's moved on and happy.  But if this will linger in your mind for decades more, just do yourself and your current GF a favor and call the ex.

If you call your ex and she's up for meeting up with you, you need to tell your current GF.  Don't replicate the way you lost your ex.  Be up front with your current that you will be catching up with an ex, and be honest if she's got questions.

See how it goes with your ex and take it from there.  But don't be surprised or upset if your current GF doesn't like you seeing your ex, or if your ex doesn't want to see you.[/quote]

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