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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a friend like this. She was elusive and it took effort for guys to earn her trust. She took forever to have sex (if she ever did). And guys fell all over themselves to be with her. And if you talked to each one, they would tell you about this AMAZING connection they had. How special it was that she finally opened up and trusted him. OMG, I knew her for 7 years. I cannot tell you how many guys this happened with. Probably 30+ guys. And she slept with maybe 5.

The thing is, she was super f***ed up. Abusive, alcoholic father. Co-dependent mother. Various food or body image issues (anorexia, bulimia, over exercising, etc), but you'd never know it by looking at her) She was sexually abused by a babysitter and her brothers by an Uncle. But she looked like the happiest person with the most amazing close family. But so, so f***ed up. And serious issues around sex.

There was a reason she was so elusive and it took so much effort to gain her trust. I can almost guarantee she was messed up![/quote]

You know what strikes me about this PP? Their incredibly judgmental tone and eagerness to pull an "elusive" female down from her apparent pedestal. PP, if you can write about her sexual abuse, emotional abuse, "serious issues around sex" and body issues with [i]this much[/i] gossipy glee, it's safe to say you are guaranteed to be more "messed up" than this woman was.

Do note that the PP shit-talking this abused girl describes herself as a "friend". Her worst misfortune may have been that she surrounded herself with women like this PP.[/quote]

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