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[quote=Anonymous]OP--as you can see, a post like yours brings out all the worst misogyny on DCUM. And most PPs are not bothering to read anything other than the title of the post and are just reacting like jerks to the "he threw a pillow" part. I'm sorry you've gotten some ignorant, nasty posts.

You were in a violent relationship and then got into an emotionally abusive relationship and had a child with a man who was emotionally abusive before you were even pregnant. OP, you have made choices that indicate you're repeating a very negative pattern that you must break or else your child will grow up witnessing abuse and thinking an abusive relationship is a normal relationship. Do not try to take your next steps on your own because between being exhausted, being emotionally abused, and having a pattern of questionable choices -- you should not try to handle this without support. Please get to a counselor as fast as you can. For you, not for you and DH as a couple. Also talk to staff at a women's shelter about how to exit an abusive household safely. You do NOT have to be going into a shelter yourself -- you can ask them for advice and contacts like legal help.

If your husband has shown real remorse about cheating, and if he can have a sensible, adult discussion about how the whole pillow thing went down and why it upset you, then you and he might be able to hold things together IF there is any marriage there to save (and staying married "for our child" is not a good idea)-- but ONLY with serious couples therapy and a lot of effort. [/quote]

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