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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OK if it's about vanity.  I wish my wife would just tell me that she wants me to look better.   I also wish that I could tell her the same.

I have been busting my butt working out and eating better for more than a year and have lost 40lbs and I think she has gained the 40 that I lost, at least it feels that way.

It stinks to not be in the same place on this issue.   I want recapture a little youth and feel healthier, more athletic and skinny and I would prefer that she try to do the same but I just don't see it happening.  [/quote]

I'll bet my husband feels the same way about me.  I joined weight watchers  to lose 30 pounds and I've been trying to exercise more.  But, I have a 2 year old and a 4 year old, I work full time, and I'm tired.  He has a flexible (freelance) work schedule and he is a natural at mindful eating and fitness.  He looks great!  I really miss feeling even slightly fit.[/quote]

He should be doing much more childcare and housework, so you have time and energy to exercise.[/quote]

I pay for full time childcare for one kid (school aged) as well as cleaners twice a week a gym membership and two club memberships.  Let's just say the results aren't there.   I would throw a lot of money at this if there were even an effort to try to get back to an early marriage level of fitness.   I am trying every day and the more that I try the less she tries.  I actually think she is resentful that I am trying to remain fit

Make an effort to be more fit and more attractive.   I am not even saying that I want results, just show me some effort.  [/quote]

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