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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear Op,

Rescues have rules because they know from experience that people adopt the dog and then find out how much time, work and money they are so they bring them back.  Do you know how hard this is on the animal?  How difficult do you think it would be to find a home for a dog that has been brought back a few times?

Look, we need to have rules so that rescues weed out the people who are not serious.  It is the best for the animals.  By all means go to a breeder but, the good ones will also have some rules too.  After all, you get to know each animal wouldn't you want to give it to the best home?[/quote]

It's a rule that cuts out an awful lot of families. And that's just one of the myriad rules they have. I'm a longtime dog owner and know what it takes.

Whatever. It's one more dog that will sit in a cage without a home.[/quote]

So it is ok for the people to bring back the dog when it doesn't work out?  There are lots of people willing to do what it takes to adopt a rescue dog.  If it isn't for you, fine.  But, don't go complaining about the rules because you don't like them.  They are there for a reason.   [b]Would you say the same for adopting a child?[/b]  I had to find homes for cats and believe me when you care for an animal you want them to go to a loving home and there needs to be standards.  Sorry if you don't like it but, I think you are 100 percent wrong on this.[/quote]

You do realize that making this comparison makes you seem either mentally deficient, a deranged lunatic, or a little bit of both?  [/quote]

I am the person you are quoting.  I admit I should not have compared adopting a child to a dog.  My point was only that we have rules for a reason.  No need to be mean as I am not mentally deficient, or a deranged lunatic.  Maybe you were looking at yourself when you wrote this?[/quote]

I adopted both a dog and a child.  We were going through the process for the child when we decided to adopt the dog.  DH and I did, in fact, roll our eyes at the ridiculousness of some of the rescues whose rules were stricter/more arbitrary than the child adoption agency.
We ended up buying some cheapo fencing from home depot and temporarily putting it up for the day when the rescue lady came to our house.  (We had a fence, but the fence "wasn't tall enough")  
And we were allowed to adopt a child even though both of us work full time.

Six years later, both the original fence and the fake-extension-fence are long gone, and both the dog and the kid are doing well.

Yes, some of these rescues absolutely drive people away and to pet stores/breeders. [/quote]

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