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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. I talked to him last night based on a lot of the feedback here. 
I told him that he has a medical condition that can be treated, yet because he is content with it right now he doesn't realize how urgent this is to US.

He seemed to think that I have a sex problem.  I told him that wanting to be with a partner in a committed relationship sexually 2x a week is NOT a sex problem. He actually said that maybe I have a problem with wanting sex too much, he said "are you a sex addict?" My jaw dropped.  It got a little heated when he said that. Not gonna sugar coat it, it really upset/angered me. He even said "it's not the end of the world if we don't have sex"

It ended with me asking him to go back to the dr or see another one for a second opinion. I said that I will/must go with him. I worry that he isn't explaining the full scope of how his has 0 drive vs low drive to the dr.  I couldn't really tell if he was taking me seriously, but I did say "this is not how I can live my life, it's important to me to have that bond in a relationship and it is severely missing. Last night was the first evening in a long time that he went to the gym without me."

I'm not sure what is going to happen, but the feedback here at least validated my feelings and that this is NOT ME. It's him, and he can fix this if he wants to.

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