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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You think you can start a relationship with someone by having sex with them. No offensebut if he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. Know what I mean?[/quote]

I agree with this.  The fact that you are already worried about him dropping you for a side chick shows where you know you already stand.[/quote]

+1. OP insists that she's the one who's been "friend-zoning," but IME, if a guy wants to be with you, he'll make pretty clear that that's not OK with him. He would tell you that he'd break up with his current GF to be with you. But, it may be that you are both poor communicators and just won't tell each other what you really want. How old are you anyway? I think that once you hit your mid-30s--especially if you've already been married and divorced--it's a good thing to tell people what you are looking for, rather than just beat around the bush and play coy guessing games.[/quote]

He had no choice in the friend zone. I was going through a situation that left him/us no choice.  All he could do was be there as a friend. Which he was.

And there were no coy games. I considered sex with him and that's where my conversation went.[/quote]

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