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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just one more thought. Think that a real downside was losing out in making stronger connections with acquaintances who I could actually see becoming friends with both my husband and me. The  wife of one couple, for example, doesn't drink and I think my getting drunk perhaps makes her think twice about getting together at other social eventa.  Has any of you cut off friends because they got sloppy drunk?[/quote]I don't drink due to alcoholism in my family.  I wouldn't cut off a friend because they drink - we have some good friends who I think are active alcoholics.  I know and they know they're not going to quit drinking so I don't try to convince them of that.  But if I saw an acquaintance drinking too much, I would be reluctant to seek them out as a closer friend.  I would figure we just don't socialize the same way - I'm willing to hang with heavy drinkers now and then because they're already my friends but I wouldn't seek out new heavy drinkers for friendship.  It's not a judgment thing - it's just that I don't get to drink (and I would like to) so I don't want to hang with people who do that a lot.

But if this is a one-time event, OP, I would probably change my mind about hanging with you.[/quote]

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