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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The PP who told his kids their mother cheated it a dirtbag. I can totally see why she cheated. My ex husband cheated. My kids were 3 and 7 at the time. They are 28 and 24 now. They have no idea that their father cheated.  All they know is that we weren't very good as husband and wife. They know that we both love them. We were both able to remain civil during our separation and divorce. I couldn't stay married to him after I found out about the cheating. But I wasn't about to allow it to further hurt my children. The divorce was tough enough.

Being an adult and a parent means putting aside your own petty need to prove you are right. It means rising above the need for revenge. Good parents protect their children from unnecessary pain. My ex cheated. I couldn't control that. But I did have control over my actions. I chose to take the high road and I have never regretted it. [/quote]

Good for you.  You did it right.

My dad cheated, my parents divorced.  My mom made it clear every time I saw her that my dad and his cheating was the reason for divorce.  It got to the point I just couldn't be around mom anymore.  When you tear into my dad (or my mom) you tear into me (that's how it feels to kids, trust me on this).

Sorry to derail the thread.  I liked to OP's topic better, the hot mom in lingerie pining over the neighbor, far more entertaining![/quote]

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